Never comment on a woman’s weight — especially if you are terribly uninformed and share dangerous opinions.
A 22-year-old model and influencer shared the moment she confronted a photographer after he told her that she needed to eat less so she could lose weight.
Belgian influencer Lize Dzjabrailova shared the moment online – and it quickly racked up millions of views as people applauded her fearlessness.
The 22-year-old from Antwerp, Belgium, said she had been excited to for the photoshoot – but walked out before it began over the outrageous comments.
In the video, she warned the photographer that he cause someone to develop body issues, eating disorders and other major health complications.
She said: “I have a platform in Belgium, and a clothing brand here reached out to me for a paid job. I agreed to do the photos. The clothing brand and clients knew my size, knew how I looked and said they loved it.
“But when I got to the studio, the photographer told me in two weeks I would have another job. He went on to say that it would be better if I didn’t eat for two weeks straight so that I would look skinnier in the pictures.
“I was basically in shock and just quiet for a minute, staring at him. That’s when my friend started to film.
“I’ve always been told by men what to eat when to stop eating. I should not be told what to do with my body.
“The one thing that is so important is to have boundaries. People will always love to test how far they can go with you.
“You have to, at the first disrespect you receive, leave. Imagine if I’d listened to the photographer’s advice to starve myself.
“What would he ask of me at the next photo shoot? He would have gone even further.
“You don’t have to be afraid to lose people. If they cannot see your worth, somebody else will. But you have to see the value in yourself first.”
In the powerful video, Lize says: “You can’t tell people not to eat until the next shoot because that will develop an eating disorder.
“You are very lucky that I am secure in my body and that I love myself.
“But if there was another model who is standing here and was insecure in her body, that one comment you made would make her go insane.
“She could literally stop eating, her hair would fall out, her organs can die. She could die because of that one comment you made.
“You should watch how you talk to people. I shouldn’t lose anything, because I am already very skinny.
“But even if I wasn’t, you can’t tell me what to do with my body.
“You should watch what you tell people because it can really damage them.”
Lize claims that the photographer has been fired following the incident.
She decided to post the video of her altercation in order to raise awareness of these issues in the fashion industry.
Lize said: “The clients called me 20 minutes after I left the studio and apologised. They wanted me to come back. But I didn’t want to go ahead with it, even with a different photographer.
“The next morning, they let me know they had fired that photographer who said those things to me. Speaking up does make a difference. It is important, and we should love ourselves first.”